"Sharing of the lifestyle requires one to open themselves, to expose a bit of their soul...."
The information they impart is from experiences they have had, knowledge they have gained as they journeyed down the path of Dominance and submission. Learn from them as well as others. Do not be afraid to ask questions. Where possible, each author's e-mail address is at the bottom of their article and they are willing to answer questions.
The Beauty of BDSM
"It is the acceptance of it from my slave...
that is where I find the true beauty of S/M..."
"it takes courage to face change.. courage to embrace the ability to choose... courage to face fear and to unveil it for what it really is..."
"Where is your submission coming from? Is it coming from an intelligent strong choice to submit?"
Who's in Charge?
"The submissive gives up control to the Dominant until such a time they feel it necessary to take that control back..."
"The key issue in avoiding this situation is for the Master to feel free to dominate in any way he desires..."
"I have come to believe that submission is an emotion ... an inner feeling... a hunger satiated only by Dominance offered in love and commitment"
The Importance of Honesty
"If the submission is not based on honesty the dominant cannot predict it's outcome. If he can't predict the outcome he's not on top...."
Online - The Good, The Bad and the Ugly
"Stand on your own morals, your own knowledge, your own beliefs. Your gut will tell you when to believe and when not to"
"Today we embrace a lifestyle born from these things we learned...and harvested from yesterdays cultivation.. Today we watch as tomorrow nears... Commitment... Devotion."
Keep the Fires Burning
"All it takes is a little creativity, an open realistic mind and a true desire for the BDSM to live forever..."
Dynamics of BDSM
"It's extremely important to us that the elevator doesn't get stuck at a certain level - that we constantly seek new areas of unknown lands to explore..."
Characteristics of a Slave
"She is also loyal to herself. A slave should never do anything that is against her own moral standings."
Marks of a Soul
"...The marks that I wear on my soul are marks that will stay with me forever. They have become a part of me, a part of
"I feel His own soul react as I reach into myself to give Him back some tiny portion of what He has given me."
"...Domination is not a learned trait. You either ARE Dominant... and ALWAYS have been.. or you ARE NOT. It's that simple. "
"...teach them independence, self-reliance and the ability to use their own strength."
What is a Master?
"A Master is human, first and foremost.
He is not perfect, yet he strives for perfection."
"Awareness - of who she is and what it will mean to enter into a d/s relationship."
"Punishment is a serious step, by its very nature it is NOT friendly. It is NOT nice."
"It is this wanting/needing of expectations that makes Dominants and submissives equal."
"Everyday of my life he is a constant reminder by living with this. Let me tell you HIV sucks. Is it worth it?? You decide!!"
Living & Dying in D/s
"This was our last night together, I knew it and so did he.....You only had to see his face..to see his eyes swimming in his face, to know that he would have no tomorrow. "
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